How to Not Care What People Think

Do you care too much about what people think of you? Are you constantly looking in the mirror so that people you don't even know see you looking good? Do you care what rumors about you say? Is the fact that you don't have 3 billion friends following after you getting you in a rut? If yes... then follow these guide-lines to sit back and enjoy what you have. Do things alone, whether that might be shopping or taking the train. No one will really give it a second thought... unless you look all self conscious and stuff, and even then you should collect yourself. Notice how you're behaving and try to calm yourself down: Think about your actions at the moment. Are you overreacting? So you're not comfortable doing things by yourself? Observe your surroundings. What about it is exactly threatening? What about it is "out of your league"? (Please note that NOTHING is out of anybody's league) Observe the people that are measuring your actions. Don't be afraid to look someone in the eye. Especially when that someone is scanning YOU out. Note how ridiculous it is. Why are they acting like that? Realize that if you are "worthless" then they are as equally nugatory as well. Collect yourself. This world was made for you. Yes! It was! And it was made for your neighbors as well, too. So make the best out of your experiences. Instead of pointing out the bad things about a situation, think and note the "good" things about it. Try not giving a flying f*ck. Occupy yourself with something you enjoy. If you have a Nintendo DS on hand, pop in a game and play it. You like crossword puzzles? Do some. Sudoku? Go ahead! DO NOT give these people the veneration. They don't deserve respect! Don't say "please" or "excuse me" or "thank you". Show it in your eyes that you are a wild spirit and you roam this good old world with pride.